新加坡女孩 – 約會師的觀點

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每個男人我見面, 無論是它在工作, 或在我的大學, almost always tend to have a fixed mindset about the Singapore dating scene. Firstly they have a very traditional mindset that dating success, when it comes to Singapore girls, is something you either have, or do not. You are either born with it, or you are left to ponder the what ifs.

Second of all, they also tend to think that they are at a disadvantage compared to the foreign expatriates who will always have theso calledSarong party girls going after them. Many guys here tend to think, that they are usually left with the leftovers, the not so fancied of the Singapore girls. In truth, the only handicap that local guys have in the Singapore dating scene, is this mindset of being inferior, and not allowing themselves to improve.

I have dated a prom queen from a certain junior college, a FHM cover model and some real beautiful local women, inside and out. Let me tell you guys, the reason our Caucasian friends seem to do better then local guys has nothing to do with being a foreigner. 它有自己的思維和心態去做.

性別鴻溝

大多數新加坡男人和女孩被帶到了一個明顯的性別鴻溝. 這傢伙有表現得像個君子, 即使女孩只是一個他的朋友. 這從年輕的心態,使許多人對女生則不同,他們會像對待人. 他們可能是所有的樂趣和笑聲與他們的男性朋友,然後他們的女性同行, 所有的行為和紳士風度無聊. 作為紳士的結束是讓女性遍步你. 現在, 為什麼一個女孩想要一個漂亮, 無聊和傳統的男性為他們的伴侶的人,他們可以遍步?

大多數外國球員, 尤其是白種人, 從來沒有天生的這種思維定勢. 性別鴻溝是少了很多像美國和英國的國家. 這意味著,球員大多有自己對待男女同行以同樣的方式. 他們會不會突然凍結, 開始滿頭大汗和對婦女的假的方式行事.

這也意味著他們有很多女性更好玩, 而不會想到他們發癢女性朋友的兩倍, 他們背著他們的肩膀,並在泳池扔, 或拍打臀部他們以友好的方式嬉戲. 現在這傢伙似乎更吸引人? 無聊的地方, 或瘋狂的外國人?

我不知道你們, 但如果我是一個新加坡女孩, 我會去瘋狂的好玩的傢伙.

所以你看, 所不同的是沒有在比賽中, 其在心態. 這是你的信仰體系.

信仰體系

你的信仰體系是至關重要的,因為它在你生命的每一個領域取得成功使然. 她們可以用嗅覺不安全和缺乏信心一英里外的這些信念會毀了你的約會生活在新加坡. 信仰是你持有的關鍵要素之一是決定你的約會生活的成功. 你可能會用一個公寓百萬富翁和一輛保時捷,但如果你相信內心深處某一個女孩是你的聯賽上面比它將成真. (想想吧, 有一天有些人要得到那個女孩, 為什麼不能那傢伙是你?)

大多數人花費了大半天的負相談自己,而不是積極的談話. 這是自卑的最大原因之一, 放棄或甚至還試圖缺乏興趣.

如果你告訴自己的東西足夠的時間, 你會開始相信它. 相信我, 這是一個科學事實證明. 這個新的信念將在其自己的想法,並開始創建自己的自我對話. Most people with negative self belief also have negative self talk that creates a self-fulfilling prophesy. If that is you, STOP RIGHT NOW.

How would you walk if you believed you could make any Singapore girl feel great inside?

How would you talk if you already believed any woman would be attracted to you?

How would you act if you were the kind of man that women dream about?

How would the expression on your face be if you knew that no one but you could give the woman sitting across you the time of her life?

遵循的所有重要原則 “假它直到你讓它”. 保持像個它,直到最後你將是女孩想要的傢伙. 尤其是新加坡的女孩.

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